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Current Status of the NYC Nightlife Industry

Originally Published May 11, 2009

In the Nightlife & Entertainment industry, money & success are oftentimes not as important as public perception and an individual’s ego. If someone is doing well then everyone wants to be their friend due to perceived “benefits” (free entry & alcohol, enhanced social connections, money, drugs, etc.). It works both ways though, as Industry Insiders (“Insiders”) use these relationships to enhance and perpetuate the profitability of parties, pacify egos and satisfy personal desires.

All people want to feel important and have an ability to do whatever they want at all times; people are intrigued by those that live a privileged or desired life. After all, wouldn’t it be cool to be like Jay Z, be a “Boss”, and receive respect & admiration in virtually all situations?

Jay-Z - Dirt Off Your Shoulder

Jay Z Video

But life isn’t always how it appears, or how others would like you to believe. Most successful people have worked hard to overcome hardships before appearing on anyone’s radar; most never “make it” and the ones you hear about are the survivors. It’s a major accomplishment for an individual to have the general public take interest in their lives and many thrive,manipulate and profit from this attention to further enhance their public image and achieve even more. It’s a cycle: initial attention leads to profit & monetization which aids additional achievement, leading to more attention, profit and achievement of personal goals.

Unfortunately people are very bad at resisting temptation and managing power; even those that have overcome tremendous hardships to become public figures oftentimes succumb to greed and selfishness. Additionally, many public figures simply become “Image Managers” with the goal of perpetuating an image that’ll receive the most attention.

Spitzer Apologizes and is Finally Caught

Eliot Spitzer Finally Gets Caught

So How Does this Apply to Nightlife and Entertainment?

Many Insiders that have slowly transformed into Image Managers feel tremendous internal pressure to remain relevant and will do whatever it takes to attract attention. It’s actually in their best interest to deceive others if they lack confidence in their ability to achieve future goals; they live off past achievements by managing current perceptions.

Gossip More Important than the Truth?

When Insiders discuss sensitive topics, it’s safe to assume that they’ll only portray information that places them in the best possible light.
Few Things about the NYC Nightlife Industry Economy:

  • The top ~5 to 6 exclusive places in NYC are so profitable that even if profitability declines 50% they will still net a few million in operating profits
  • Middle tier venues will continue to shut down; many of these places that used to do $35K on a Saturday (liquor sales plus entrance revenue) are now doing ~$12K and can’t pay their bills even with severe cost cutting (best example: The Grand).

Bottom Line: It’s difficult to get an honest answer from people unless they have an incentive to be truthful.

Regardless of poor economic conditions, the smart businesspeople and exceptional Industry operators will likely emerge stronger than before. They understand that real, sustainable and consistent profitability takes precedence over public perception.

Update: October 2009 I was accurate in predicting, back in early May, that 3-4 venues would close. Currently, I think we’re beyond the major consolidation and closing phase. Instead I foresee increases in both renovations (closing for 2-8 weeks then relaunching under a new name) and capital raises where borrowers place less of their personal equity at risk.

Falling into NYC Nightlife

How It All Started…

I began working in NYC on February 23, 2004, ecstatic to be an investment banking analyst and work 100+ hours a week. Whenever I reflect upon those times it’s evident that I was delusional. I consistently endured the wrath of abusive bosses that treated all subordinates like garbage. However, the inherent flaws of my brain “rescued” me! Since I eventually began to hate my first job, yet continued allowing it to control my life, my brain subconsciously modified my thoughts and I convinced myself that I was “paying my dues”, that way I could continue going into the office every day (Example of Self Delusion). When I wasn’t at the office, I’d go out to bars and talk to girls. But….. I had no “game” and the conversations died quickly. I’ve never felt comfortable at bullshitting or boasting of past accomplishments; to this day, I always downplay prior achievements in fear of becoming complacent. As a result, oftentimes I wouldn’t say much when speaking with random girls and conversations would end quickly.

My friend from Cornell University, Chris Riccione, had experimented with nightlife promoting and suggested that I try it as well to meet new people. I’d never been a fan of nightclubs (primarily due to door policies) but I acquiesced and felt it was worth giving it a shot. What I quickly observed was that the Nightlife & Entertainment Industry was very fragmented and unorganized.

Fast forward to today, I never would have imagined that Nightlife & Entertainment would become a material component of my life; while I still dislike the innate superficiality, dishonesty and self destructiveness indelibly sewn into the Industry’s social fabric, I’ve forced myself to separate and detach myself from the negative components so that I don’t fall prey to aspects that would poison my character and sense of purpose.

This Industry destroys the majority of its members, even those that many consider to be highly successful are currently walking down a path of remorse and necessary rehabilitation. People, in general, are poor at resisting seduction & temptation; the corruption process usually begins very innocently, with the individual, logically, thinking, “Why not spin fakeness and superficiality on its head? What’s wrong with having the Playmates and Ford & Wilhelmina Models come over to ‘play’ for an hour or two? We’re both using each other anyway.”

This “fun” is typically a precursor to the insatiable greed, ego and desire which, over a period of time, overwhelms and nullifies an individual’s future.

For all, myself included, who desire to achieve their goals and maximize accomplishments, we must never forget our inherent compassionate and humble disposition prior to the corruption that’s taken place and robbed us of our innocence.